There are memories we made that I never want to forget.
Unfortunately, ADHD. Twice.
I’m writing these down now, and I’ll be updating them as the many years go by until servers can’t handle it anymore. I don’t want to end up like a typical asian picture taking tourist obsessed with photos more than making memories, but I want to make sure that nobody forgets these.
1
You saved my life with an inhaler
This was fairly recent as of making this website, but I woke up at 4 am in our new home (as of 2026). I could not fucking breathe, I opened several boxes looking for where we packed the inhaler. By the time it got to 5:30 I started seeing purple, and I was on the verge of passing out.
I woke you up with “I don’t want to worry you… but I’m having a severe asthma attack” and in a fucking stroke of genius – you went to the bug out bag! I knew it would come in handy.
2
The Punishment After Cycling
Do you remember how – during COVID, I suffered from a condition called… crippling unemployment? I was so broke that I had to cycle to see you. I left at 4 am, and arrived at 11:30.
I made a joke you didn’t like and you threw away the tobacco that was meant to last a week. I stopped smoking bacci now, so it’s funny but at the time, I was pissed.
3
The Biffs Orders
When we were long distance, and you were living that struggling uni student life – I used to order food to your door to cheer you up. I left delivery instructions to address the order to “Daddy’s Girl”. I wrote that you were upset and needed a treat as a pick me up
The fucking cooks went in on the joke! They gave you extra food and left a note saying something along the lines of “We added a little extra treat for Daddy’s Girl, hope it cheers you up”
4
The Arcade Mario Kart Races
You don’t understand the joy this bought me. You’d play baby princess peach, I’d either play as waluigi – or baby mario. I remember that we knew which arcade machine was absolutely clapped – and I’d have to be the one that used it.
I never “let you win” so every time you beat me, that was real. But just know, every time I beat you, I did it with a fucked steering wheel… Just saying. I’m a sore loser.
5
The Eastleigh Shops & Food Stops
We hit up every new restaurant and bubble tea place that cropped up in eastleigh. We went round so much that they remembered our names and orders. In fairness, you’re very difficult to forget. You’re just that pretty.
If you think about it, you can’t help but get it. You’re the prettiest girl in that town (and probably the prettiest girl to ever walk the earth). Even if it’s a random shop or walking across the street, you’re pretty hard to forget.
6
The Chismosas
The first time you ever got introduced to the Tita’s and Ate’s everyone was all like “Oh my god your skin! What do you do to take care of your skin oh my gaadddd” and shit like this, then they were all like “Wow you’re so baeutiful” and “Wait what is a vegan?” followed with “Haaa?! You don’t eat meat?”
From the get go – you didn’t just get me to fall in love with you, there’s an entire community of culture that thinks you’re out my league.